Taking It In
For some people, being given a diagnosis of dementia confirms what they themselves had suspected for some time. For other people it may come as a great shock, and take some time to sink in.
When you are ready, you will probably want to find out more about the type of dementia you have been diagnosed with. You may also have questions about what causes dementia.
The Alzheimer's Society has produced some helpful factsheets, that suggest things you can do that will help to make life easier and more enjoyable, both now and in the future. They are:
- What if I have dementia?
- Next steps
- Don't make the journey alone
- Shared Experiences - Suggestions for those with Alzheimers Disease
Lasting Power of Attorney (LPA)
A Lasting Power of Attorney (LPA) enables you to appoint one or more people who you trust to manage your affairs should this become necessary. The role of the LPA can extend to managing your finances, making decisions about your health and personal welfare all of which must be in your best interests.
Despite the formal title of 'attorney' this can be anybody you trust - often a close friend or family members - but they must be at least 18 years old.
Go to Dementia web's Power of Attorney page.
Driving
Being given a diagnosis of dementia does not automatically exclude you from driving, however there is a legal obligation to inform the DVLA of the diagnosis. The car insurance company must also be informed immediately.
Our Driving and Dementia page has more detailed information.
Explaining to family and friends
You may wonder how to explain the diagnosis to the people you know and love. The factsheet Family and Friends can help with this dilemma. A number of books are available to help with talking to children, an excellent title you can review on line and print off, if desired, is The Milk's in the Oven.
Managing Memory 2gether
You may wish to talk to someone from Managing Memory 2gether who can give some guidance on explaining to family and friends. This organisation provides community based services for people worried about memory, people with Dementia and carers of people with Dementia. The service offers telephone support, written information, referral to other services and advice on a wide range of topics. Contact: 0800 694 8800 Email: managingmemory@glos.nhs.uk
Living Alone
A diagnosis of dementia does not have to mean leaving your home, even if you live alone. However you will probably want to have some extra support, especially as the disease progresses. The Alzheimer's Society Factsheet Living alone has further information.
